Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Mama Monkey, Mama Monkey, What Do You See?

Mama Monkey,
Mama Monkey,
what do you see?
I looked out the window,
And what do I see?
Two black ducks
Right in front of me!



Since we live less 100 feet from a lake, we often see a pair of our fine feathered friends taking a siesta in our yard. We don't feed them though, as I've been told that they will actually come knocking on your door!
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Big questions & big answers

Today, Kathryn asked me, "How do we cough?"

Uh, well, it's a reflex. We just do it. "Do you mean what happens inside our bodies when we cough?

"Yeeeees"

Then, I recalled our discussion of the heart & a description of the lungs: where they are in relation to the heart & how they they resemble balloons, etc...whew!

I think between David & myself & a little help from the internet we will manage the hows & whys. I've got the human body covered. The questions will only get more challenging from here!

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Dear LORD...

If only they could always stay this sweet & innocent! I think that empathy & compassion for others are a some qualities that are learned behaviors...so, each night when I tuck Kathryn into bed we say a short & simple prayer together..."fish, sick babies, safe trip home for Gramma & Papa, Daddy's boo-boo get better, Mommy, & turtles" are among the many things she has prayed for. And, let me tell you, this kid has a mind like an elephant--she remembers what she has already prayed for & there aren't many things that get a second mention...unless she's praying for her own boo-boos or boo-boo bites which are what she calls her mosquito bites both of which are really bothersome to her. This particular evening's prayer was her choice. I mentioned to her that afternoon that this person was pretty sick...

Enjoy!


Since this video, I was out one evening & David put Kathryn to bed. She reminded him that saying a prayer was part of her bedtime routine. David started the, "Now I lay me down to sleep..." prayer & she interrupted him, "NO, we NEED to pray for someone!"


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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Our very own farmer's market...

One of the yummy advantages to living in Houston, TX is the long growing season. When we initially purchased the house in December 2009, I don’t think we quite realized what the pay off would be. I know I didn’t. The former owners planted a peach tree. How did they know I loved peaches? Bless their hearts.

This was the peach tree along with the bounty it produced last June!


  Amazing, right? And, let me tell you, I could eat 4-6 of those, mainly because they were on the smallish side but they were also very tasty; sweet & juicy! Mmm…and, I looked forward to them this year, but unfortunately, sometime over the winter the tree died. Sigh…when David told me it was dead, I was truly heartsick & already missing that sweet taste of a home grown peach.

Last year around this time, David planted various vegetable & fruits; tomato, pepper, zucchini, yellow squash, green string beans, pumpkin, watermelon, & cantaloupe. I was prepared to be the canning, freezing, & fruit drying person. Unfortunately, last year was a dud until fall when the plants finally produced a minimal crop.

This year David had our plants ready to put in the ground in March & he even started all the plants from seeds! I really have to hand it to him! I’m so proud of him because he spends a lot of time & effort to research different varieties that we would enjoy & that are right for our planting zone. He’s become a true farmer & Kathryn really enjoys helping him. When her & I are outside, she'll bring her plastic watering can (that holds less than a quart) to me & announce that she needs to water Daddy's plants. Hmm, how many of those cans do you think it's going to take?


I’ll show you some pics from the beginning of April for something to compare to…

David is trying something a little different this year. He started some patio tomatoes to compare how well they fair against those in the ground.

                             

Of course we like more than just tomatoes around here. David & Kathryn like their beans & David is training them to go up the string! Has anyone seen Jack? I think I found his beanstalk! Ha, ha.


  We have banana plants in our backyard, & we are hoping to have some bananas this year, since they didn’t produce last year. From what the neighbors have told us, they might have an occassional year when they don't bare any fruit.


Right now I'm wondering how many canning jars I will need! Holy moly!

Adios, for now & happy planting to any other farmers out there!

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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

A Tuesday worthy of a chocolate shake

First, let me say very briefly that I have missed blogging & I will do better. I will also try to post what you've all missed over the last 1 1/2 years--that's a long time not to have heard from someone.  But for now I will post about...

yesterday that will forever be etched in my mind...Kathryn usually attends pre-school on Tuesday & Thursday, but instead yesterday we had parent-teacher conferences. Ms. Starlyn, a southern name I suppose, is a gem & adores Kathryn. How could one not? I ask myself all the time.

Here's how the conference went... 

Cognitively, Kathryn is just OFF the charts! Holy cow, but not really too surprised Loves math--organizes everything from play kitchen plates & cups, coins all facing the same way, & categorizing things by shapes or colors. Loves letters & reading--recognizes her classmates names & picking magnetic letters out to spell her name on the board, Let's spell my last name to which Ms. Starlyn told me that she's just glad if she can just get a child to remember their last initial. Looks like they need more letters in class. She can also finish a pattern sequence & draw a circle counterclockwise (important for writing the abc's) & is also the only child in class that attempts to repeat silly sayings said by the teachers.

At home...she lines up her dolls or stuffed animals & she's always fair to them making sure each gets a plate to eat from & she has to walk her guy forward while playing Candyland; never backward! She knows when we spell her first and last name with foam letters in the bathtub that we have to borrow the zero to make the last name complete! She is learning how to read; always asking how to spell whatever is on her mind Mommy, Daddy, play, Biscuit, dog, cat, & baby are a few she already knows. I have noticed the last 2 weeks or so that her creativity & imagination have gone through the roof...renaming herself or her stuffed animals with silly names & making up her own songs to building trains & birthday cakes with her blocks yes, we've progressed from cell phone towers. She is also learning how to tell time! She expressed the desire to learn & a few nights later I printed out a clock face from the internet, laminated it & the next day she eagerly helped me put the hands on. What time is it? It's 3:15 on my clock, too! As she looks back & forth to make sure they match! Sometimes every minute, if we have somewhere to go or something to do so that she can compare clocks while we wait. I figured I wouldn't get much of a response from the clock or that at most we would just learn on-the-hour times but she sure likes that minute hand! She really is a laugh riot.


Kathryn with her sock because she has trouble saying the cl & holding up two fingers on each hand for 2 o'clock!

She has really good genes!









After the parent/teacher conference, we headed to the grocery store...in & out lickety split. You all know the next scene: there I was at the car ready to put the groceries in the car. I usually put Kathryn in the car before the groceries, because I believe that is the safest place for her to be. When I debate this in my mind, I imagine that that one day I don't put her in first a crazy driver will come careening down the aisle & slam into the cart & that's a scene I really don't want to think about. So, in the car she goes, followed by the groceries & locking the car to walk the cart directly across the aisle & back to the car to buckle her in & while doing so I lock the car, toss the keys into my seat & close the door behind me as I exit the back passenger seat. Immediately, my reaction is HOLY COW, what have I just done? OMGosh! I locked my daughter in the CAR!

So, now that it's after the incident & she's safe I can make light of the whole situation...

How many does it take to save a child in Texas trapped in a locked vehicle before it gets too HOT inside?

Thank goodness that it wasn't 105 degrees out! Not yet, but very soon! how many different emergency services does it take? THREE...police, fire, & medics...1 to interrogate the MOTHER Did you leave her in the car while you went shopping?, 1 to use the do-hickey to open the door, & 1 to be there to provide medical support if necessary! Can she unbuckle the carseat, one of the firemen asked? Uh, no! Anyone who knows me, knows what kind of a fanatic I am. Oh, I caused a really, big commotion! oops... 

Here's a pic shortly after when I treated her to a chocolate shake from McDonald's...she really deserved it super-sized! She was a real trooper!

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Sunday, April 24, 2011

Easter smiles!

Kathryn’s school Easter party & egg hunt started off our Easter celebration…


Kathryn woke early Easter morning & asked, “Is the Easter bunny here to see me, NOW?” No he's very busy but he’ll come by while we were at church. This year, Kathryn traded in her pacifiers for big girl toys from the Easter bunny so “he will give them to the babies” & she shared how generous she was with everyone from her friends & teachers to the A/C repair man. I was a little skeptical that she would follow thru with it. We went up to bed that Saturday, Kathryn on her Daddy’s shoulders as she always does & when it came time to tuck her in she asked for them & No they're being washed because the Easter Bunny needs to take them in the morning…20 minutes later she was sleeping. Thank goodness. So that morning, as she opened her Easter basket, David & I really, really played up how she got ALL big girl gifts from the Easter bunny. He even left her a note thanking her for them & how she must be a very, big girl to want to give them to the babies. He left her a new Thomas the train set car, Thomas puzzle, gumball machine, & a coloring book with a new set of crayons all of hers were missing the paper because she did not like to color with the paper on the crayon. When we were talking about what she wanted from the Easter bunny & she mentioned new crayons while looking at her old ones & appeared surprised that someone could that. She’s a funny kid.



My parents are lucky to always find interesting & unique gifts. This Easter was no different, Kathryn's Easter package included...kaleidoscope, Melissa & Doug alphabet stamp set oh, how we love our abc's around here, a butterfly yes, that’s right a butterfly, & a pair of Melissa & Doug gardening gloves & an adorable hat! I have wanted to make more crafts with her so the stamp set was a great way to get started by making her very own bedroom mailbox. In it, we put little notes full with I love you’s & words of encouragement. The mason jar that houses her butterfly sits on the kitchen table so she can watch him during meals & pet him by tapping on the top of the jar. She loves the hat, but she refuses to wear the gloves outside. I think she is afraid to get them dirty, huh?…they’re gardening gloves! “I don’t havvve to,” she says.


From her Auntie, Uncle Shane, & cousins Kaylee, Kelsey, & Alan came an adorable & incredibly soft bunny! She named him Peach after her favorite yogurt flavor from that Easter afternoon. Kathryn & Peach became fast friends & she includes him in activities with her other friends after all, there are many; various babies Susie, Emma, Katie, Pooh, Eyore, & Hopper another bunny, Daddy Eyore, Daddy Pooh…ALL of her dolls or animals have names & incredibly she remembers them all! Since Peach arrived, she asks everytime as we head outside to play, “Can Peach come play with me outside?” She really loves that he has a carrot, and because of him she insists that the true Easter bunny is white!



We hope all of you had a very nice & blessed Easter celebration!
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Saturday, October 31, 2009

It's Nothing to OINK at...


This post comes after a great deal of questions from others inquiring about how I feel about the H1N1 vaccine. Will you get the vaccine? Will you have Kathryn get the vaccine? There really is so much on the line whether we get it or not. If we don't get it, we risk contracting the H1N1 flu and possibly dying from its complications, however; we risk death also if we do get the vaccine. So many questions, but where to turn? I referred to The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). I wanted to provide answers to questions that many of you have asked that I didn't have answers to at the time.

But first a little bit of a review:

You may have the flu, seasonal or H1N1 if you have one or more of these symptoms: fever, cough, sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, body aches, headache, chills, fatigue and sometimes, diarrhea and vomiting.

Groups of people at higher risk for severe illness from 2009 influenza A (H1N1) infection are thought to be the same as those people at higher risk for severe illness from seasonal influenza. These groups include:

*Children younger than 5 years old
*Persons aged 65 years or older
*Children and adolescents (younger than 18 years) who are receiving long-term aspirin therapy and who might be at risk for experiencing Reye syndrome after influenza virus infection
*Pregnant women
*Adults and children who have asthma, chronic pulmonary, cardiovascular, hepatic, hematological, neurologic, neuromuscular, or metabolic disorders such as diabetes;
*Adults and children who have immunosuppression (including immunosuppression caused by medications or by HIV)
*Residents of nursing homes and other chronic-care facilities.

Worried about mercury in your child's vaccine? The H1N1 vaccine has it, too. It is also made from eggs, so be sure that your health care provider is aware if you are have an egg allergy.

You are contagious for up to a whopping 48 hours before you exhibit signs or symptoms of the flu. An amazing smart, little buggar isn't it?

Here are the answers to some of your questions:

Why won't they test more people to determine if they have seasonal influenza or the H1N1 virus? Most people with flu symptoms do not need a test for 2009 H1N1 flu because the test results usually does not change how you are treated.

"Your health care provider may diagnose you with flu based on your symptoms and their clinical judgment or they may choose to use an influenza diagnostic test. Depending on their clinical judgment and your symptoms, your healthcare provider will decide whether testing is needed and what type of test to perform. CDC has provided recommendations for clinicians this season to help with testing decisions. This season, most testing will be done in people who are seriously ill (hospitalized patients) and patients where testing may impact treatment decisions" (for example, those who are immunocompromised with cancer, HIV or AIDS), and pregnant women. Those three groups of people have the greatest need for testing, since the results will dictate their care pathway. They aren't going to test an otherwise vibrant school-aged child or teenager because they are exhibiting MILD flu-like symptoms.

The most common (tests) are called “rapid influenza diagnostic tests” (nose and throat swab) with "an ability to detect the 2009 H1N1 virus 10% to 70%" with those others left with a "false negative result."  "None of the rapid tests currently approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) are able to distinguish 2009 H1N1 flu from other flu viruses." Rapid tests appear to be better at detecting flu in children than adults.

As of September 2009, more than 99% of circulating influenza viruses in the United States are 2009 H1N1.

What about my child with asthma? Please follow this link to learn more about "Considerations for Clinicians Regarding 2009 H1N1 Influenza Virus." Please follow that link, I just didn't want to miss anything that may be important to your personal circumstances.

How many deaths from the H1N1 vaccine? I searched tirelessly for a recent figure on how many people have already died from the H1N1 vaccine itself, and I couldn't find anything. Go figure. In 1976, 40 million were vaccinated against the Swine Flu and there were 500 reported cases of Guillain-Barré syndrome resulting in 25 deaths. It has not been substantiated if these deaths were caused by the vaccine. According to Dr. Jennifer Ashton, the risk of death from H1N1 is 1 in every 1000. One too many. Read more about Dr. Ashton's Weighing Possible H1N1 Vaccine Risks. The CDC does not expect to have any deaths from the 2009 H1N1 vaccine to be caused from Guillain-Barré syndrome. Read and learn more about Guillain-Barré syndrome, like signs and symptoms.

Is the H1N1 vaccine safe? What the CDC says.

What my head says...(please know that this was very difficult for me to type) Like you, I have had many different roles in life. Daughter. Wife. Mother. Friend. Sister. Aunt. Cousin. Neighbor. Student. Nurse. It is in the capacity of my role as a nurse that I tell you with my thoughts on the H1N1 virus and vaccine.  Do not get the vaccine and risk death from the virus? Get the vaccine and risk death from a potentially fatal side effect? My thoughts are based on what I learned in my Ethics class too many years ago to count early in my student nurse role. How can the greatest good be served? An example embedded in my brain from class is: You are driving and realize that an fatal accident is imminent. Do you avoid hitting the elderly lady on your left, swerve, and hit the school bus filled with children on your right or do you hit the elderly lady and spare the children? Which scenario serves the greater good? Where will the greatest percentage of life be spared? With regards to the H1N1 virus and vaccine, which scenario serves the greatest good? By those who don't get the vaccine but contract the virus or by those who get the vaccine and die from an adverse effect, like Guillain-Barré syndrome? Unfortunately, we really won't know the answer until we see how everything plays out.  

My other roles are not any less important, but undoubtedly it is as a nurse that I serve the greatest good. A concept that is hard to fathom. Afterall, my love for family and friends is stronger than my love is for my role as a nurse. I think my dedicated role as a service provider comes from watching my father leave the house at all hours of the day or night to patrol the streets. 

An affair of the heart...My other roles dictate a different approach to the H1N1 virus and vaccine. My instinct is to care for my family and friends entirely with out the need for the vaccine. I want to protect them; keep them safe and free from this potentially fatal flu and from fatal side effects of the vaccine. Personally, I don't know if it safe enough. The reports say that it is, but I want reassurance. I want to see clinical trial test results. Data. Percentages. Graphs. Pie charts. The whole gamut. Not having the answers to many of my own questions makes me feel inadequate. Sigh.

How to protect yourself and others:
I know many of you implement these practices to prevent the spread germs but a review never hurts. 

Wash with soap and water. Single most effective precaution against person to person transmission of any virus is hand washing. If they are unavailable use an alcohol based instant hand sanitizer, according to the CDC. Do not allow young children to use Purell because they can get drunk from the alcohol content. You can check that out at Snopes. I prefer an Alcohol Free Foaming Hand Sanitizer by Babyganics. It's safe for kids to use. Wash your hands before eating or touching any part of your face. Immediately, wash your hands after sneezing or couging into them.

Stop the cycle with yourself. Stay home when sick. For two reasons, first so that you don't get anyone sick and secondly, so that you don't contract anything else.

Cough or sneeze into your hands or tissue, entirely covering your nose and mouth. This helps contain the spray and prevents those germ containing microscopic particles from spreading. For those of you convinced that you don't need to cover your nose and mouth you'll be surprised what the research says. According to Patti A. Wood, official spokesperson for Benadryl and author of Shooting the Breeze About Sneezing, researchers claim that sneezing expels air from your nose at approximately 100mph. One sneeze can propel 100,000 bacteria into the air. And the spray itself can travel as far as any wind current can take it, which may be hundreds of miles. Wow, that's amazing! Before, I was worried just about the person hacking five feet away from me at the grocery store, now I'll be worried to even have my windows open. Jeez.

Teach your children how to prevent the spread of disease. Singing "Row, Row, Row Your Boat" or "Happy Birthday" is the appropriate length of time to wash your hands.

Be aware of the precautions that your child's school or daycare is taking. Recommendations from the CDC.

Purchase a Facemask or respirator ahead of time. Follow recommendations by the CDC when to initiate use.

Avoid crowds. When inviting friends and family for gatherings into your home, request that they stay home if they have any flu-like symptoms. Limit the amount of friends and family at your home. Disinfect your home after everyone has left. Avoid the malls by doing a lot of your holiday shopping online.

Be the first line of defense for your children. When in public with your children avoid strangers like they're the plaque. When strangers come up to your child attempting to touch their face, arm, toy, etc. Make excuses that he or she is just getting over the FLU, and I wouldn't want you to get it. I was shocked when an elderly lady told me that she didn't mind a cold now and then. Ugh! Be prepared for those people who just can't take a hint.

Caring for newborn. Limit visitors and tell those pestering you for a visit that you're all just so freaked about by H1N1 that you would rather just send them pictures. Or tell them that you aren't feeling well; I think I may have a cold or a touch of the flu, cough, cough. Call your child's pediatrician with the first sign of ANY flu-like symptoms. This population is particularly vulnerable. Don't take a "let's wait and see approach."

Ask deli people to wear gloves (they are supposed to wear them according to FDA regulations). Even ask them to replace their gloves since waiting on the last person. Afterall, what's the use of wearing gloves if they are used to open the deli case anyway.

Ask the cashier who has just sneezed, coughed, touch their face, put their fingers in their mouth, or picked his or her nose to go wash their hands. Yes, I have seen each and every one of those scenarios at the grocery store. Don't even give them a chance to think about giving an excuse, because there shouldn't be one. That's all right I will wait here while you go wash your hands. Ugh.

Disinfect universal items in the house daily when a family member is sick (i.e. the door knobs, faucets, etc.) According to the Mayo Clinic the flu virus can live up to 48 hrs on inanimate objects. We have a friend who is a seller for Sherwin Williams disinfectant line of products and she said they have seen a dramatic increase in those particular products.

Quarantine older children to their room when they are ill.

Replace toothbrush or contacts after an illness.


Avoid wearing your shoes in the house.

Do not attend a swine flu party. Yes, you read that correctly. Much like chicken pox parties, college students and some parents seem to think that if they expose themselves or their child to the H1N1 virus then they will develop immunity to it. Stupidity.


When traveling. Wipe off all the surfaces in your immediate vicinity when flying. Remember, I said to avoid crowds? Take note on who around you is coughing, sneezing, sounds nasally, etc. Wipe off the entire interior surfaces of a rental car.  

Wash hands after handling money. Ever see those t.v. reports? If you didn't, money is exchanged after very dirty deeds are done leaving some very dirty germs on the money. Get my drift? Ugh.

Take your daily multivitamin.


Buy stock in Tamiflu. Keep it available if you need it. A very good friend of mine works in a pediatrician's office. She said they are starting any asthmatic child that presents with flu-like symptoms on Tamiflu with in 24 hours from the onset of symptoms. Check with your own physician but it may be beneficial to for anyone with a chronic medical condition to take it.

The information I included in this post really is just the tip of the iceburg. I still have so much information running through my information overloaded brain. I wanted to give you enough to drive you to seek your own information. Which I am sure many of you already have. But if you have not made a decision yet based on what you already know, then keep looking. We need to feel comfortable with our decisions. I believe that recieving the H1N1 vaccine is a personal decision. It's such a critical decision; don't let anyone persuede you one way or the other. Make your own informed decision. I wouldn't want to stear someone one way only to regret that opinion later because of a fatal consequence. I still have not made a decision for myself or our daughter. And, I have been reasearching the vaccine and virus for several days now. So, I will continue my search. We still have some time to weigh our options. I do suggest that you schedule yourself for an appointment for the vaccine or get on a list. You can always cancel it later, if you decide otherwise.

In addition, you can stay updated on the CDCs recommendations, by signing up for their newsletter. Go to the right side of the page and look for "Get email updates."

I certainly hope this has helped.

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